Do you want to spice up your sex life?
Are you in a phase of exploring your sexuality? Or do you want to re-ignite the spark with that special someone? A Painted Sacred Space designed to evoke passion and sensuality will help you to increase vitality, libido, creativity, and fun in your bedroom.
Why is sexuality so compelling? When you are sexually active it engages the life force.
The centers of energy located in the belly and at the base of the body are gateways into creativity, vitality, as well as the animal side of human consciousness. Exploring your relationship to your sexuality puts you in touch with these vital forces and takes you outside the controlled reality of your ordinary mental consciousness.
It is possible to have profound experiences while having sex and come in touch with deeply intimate parts of your being, bringing depth, opening, self awareness, and pleasure.
When you become consciously aware of this driving force inside yourself and build a relationship with it, you can access it when you need to spark a creative idea, charm a potential business partner, power though that last mile of your morning run, or seduce a partner for an experience of shared bliss.
Creating sacred space for desire
Becoming clear on what you want sexually is important. The more intense a desire is, the more vital force is tied to it. With a highly charged desire there can often be emotional entanglements, conditioning, or belief systems that compel you towards or away from the desire. Sometimes my clients are not even aware of the sea of desires, waiting to be discovered like exotic treasures.
So let’s start simply. What do you like in bed? Are there certain positions that turn you on? Is there something your partner does that really works for you? Are there certain times of day or night where you feel the most desire?
Work with your strengths and what you and your partner can do well together and see if you can make your best experiences even better. If there is something that your partner does that really does not work for you, come up with an alternate suggestion that you would like to try.
Once you are clear on the experiences you would enjoy, determine if you can perceive a “feeling thread” or a core feeling that runs through the background of most of your desires.
It could be the desire to experience oneness, a desire to completely let go, a feeling of freedom, or the desire to experience a particular quality of intensity. Regardless, once you have a sense of this essential desire, you can begin to design your Painted Sacred Space.
Here are some questions to assist you:
• What colors resonate with your core desire?
• When you feel your core desire, are there textures that are most appealing?
• From the sense of your core desire, do you feel light and uplifted, or grounded and dense?
• Does the space of your core desire feel light or dark?
• When you feel your core desire, does the space feel large and expansive, or close and intimate?
Now look at the answers to your questions. Begin to piece together the kinds of colors, textures, and ambiance that ideally will help facilitate your experience. Your core desire is the foundation of your Sacred Space for sex. By openly acknowledging your core desire, you can begin to arrange your bedroom to support it.
Create space to explore your fantasies
Another way to spice up your sex life is to explore your fantasies. Start inside. What are the experiences you would like to have? What are the sensations you would like to experience? Write them down in a private place, or share them with your partner. Then create your fantasy bedroom.
Set the scene, the ambiance, the lighting, the music. Get the accessories, the outfits – whatever it takes. Have fun and make it a really special time between you and your partner! The act of giving a partner a fantasy that they have always wanted is an empowering and deeply fulfilling experience for both of you, sure to win you undying adoration and deepen the space for future experiences.
The act of receiving a long held fantasy can be a hugely liberating experience that can eradicate limiting belief systems, bring you of new levels of self confidence, and stoke your passion for life.
I’m too sexy for my self
Let’s face it – there is nothing less sexy than a person who whines about what they’re not getting, or continually complains about a lackluster sex life.
Take a look at your bedroom. What does it say about you? Does it reflect your sizzling sensuality? Does it inspire passionate abandon? Fear not. A Painted Sacred Space will create the environment for you express your divine deliciousness.
Start with yourself.
Do you want the lover who looks at you like a tiger stalking it’s prey? Become the tiger and stalk your lover. Do you want a partner that oozes magnetic charm, makes you laugh, and is spontaneous in the bedroom? Find what sparks your inner magnetism, make yourself and your partner laugh, and surprise yourself by being spontaneous in your lovemaking.
You will either attract a partner that resonates with you or create the experience you desire by knowing the parts of yourself that you have always wanted to be, and have not dared to express.
A Painted Sacred Space is a reflection of an essential aspect of yourself. Creating a sacred space in your bedroom that holds and reflects your sensuality, libido, creativity, and fun, will help you embody the vital forces inside you.
How have you created Sacred Space for sex in your bedroom?
Contact me to share your ideas.